DEATH AS COUNCELOR
Sometimes it is truly necessary to be on the verge of death to take death seriously. Being aware of our own imminent death gives us a completely different perspective on our life, what we think, and the decisions we make.
When I first encountered the concept of "Death as Counselor" more than 30 years ago, I perceived it as something strange and even morbid. At that time, I didn't give it the importance it deserved as I lacked the necessary elements to comprehend its profound meaning.
My perspective changed dramatically when I was on the brink of losing my life 23 years ago, on a cliff over 50 meters high on the coasts of Oaxaca. Hanging from a cliff, looking down, the reality of my imminent death hit me head-on. Miraculously, I survived, but this experience marked a turning point in my life.
Since then, at the age of 55, the concept of "Death as Counselor" has gained deep significance. Of all I've learned on this seeker's journey, I consider this concept the most realistic and valuable, providing me with an authentic perspective on life.
Recapitulation, in this sense, becomes an empowering act for those who understand the transience of existence and seek to squeeze every drop from their experiences. One who acknowledges their own mortality takes the time to close unfinished chapters and heal lingering wounds, longing to depart without regrets or unresolved matters.
Death, as a wise counselor, teaches us to live fully, appreciating each moment as if it might be the last and recognizing the importance of closing chapters to embrace life with freedom and fullness.
In the Recapitulation Retreat, we engage in serious work to value our imminent Death as the best counselor, from a wise and liberating perspective.